This letter is meant to advice young teens about what they should watch on the TV and what they see around them. For the teens, if not properly taken care of their personalities as their brains are not well grown, they can easily be mislead by whatever they see being done by others or the grownups.It means to show teens the right way of life. It shows them the importance of treating women in the right way. It portrays dishonesty, disloyalty, lack of self control and enjoying all day at the expense of others as a poison to a gentle man’s love life.The dad has been able to show that the most of pop musicians are perverts. Their story line is full of illicit objects and they never treat women right. The letter has been able to elucidate the following items:-
Don’t be a pervert
Being a pervert means talking and portraying illicit objects all the time just like the perverts, you see in the pop music. They won’t be the right teacher instead, they will mislead you.A pervert never knows how to do the right things and does not fit in the class of gentlemen. They are dishonest, disloyal, they lack self control and they like pursuing pleasure at the expense of the others. They have no respect for mankind, they encourage you to be the same. Never be tempted to follow such people as you are not so mature to follow their tactics. Let facts and reasons lead you. Just look at the pop musicians and you will have a clear image about how they can be able to take you.
Learn to treat women right
Treating women right is a fundamental rule in any relationship. They have no fear in exposing pictures of naked women on the TV who are just doing it due to poverty. They take advantage of these emotionally hurt, confused young women, self loathing and they are courageously out for it without taken a second chance. It’s quite important for any person thinking of having a family to learn to be loving, caring and treating woman right. They treat women like trash and other innocent women crave for them. They are pigs who carry every piece of dirt. This is not how real men think nor act. Be a real man and you will stand tall.
Real men dress up decently and they don’t use their wealth to woo women. They use reasons and are led by instincts to do whatever they do. For example, the pop musicians dress expensively but in the wrong way such as sagging their trousers or dancing naked. This is not a character trait for a real man or a gentleman. To be a gentle man, you have to learn to do the right things. By following them, you will be correcting lots of things in your life. Be wise and open minded when choosing whom to emulate.
Don’t be extravagant in life
Just like the way pop musicians spend their wealth carelessly and end up being beggars in life, don’t be tempted to buy their lies. Spend your wealth wisely and you will never have problems in future. Getting women by driving expensive cars or wearing expensive clothes, will lead you nowhere. You only get the wrong woman who is after your wealth. You will always be wrong when you buy the culture of pop musicians on masculinity. These people are happy performers but you never know what they do when in their big, empty lonely houses.
Be man of integrity
Learn to be open minded and never let lies to lead you. At no time, will you be wrong when you let their temptation and lies dominating the pop culture carry you? There is not anything funny about showing that you are a man of low integrity and character. Have you ever imagined of what these people do when they walk out of the cameras. They warship mortal gods and live lives full of torments. All what you see on the TV, is a façade of their real life. It’s all poison to a young man’s life and leads them to nowhere. You cannot be able to see the emptiness in their souls but they know it and if you happen to follow their history and up to dated live moments, then you will know what I am trying to finger out. They take alcohol and drugs to help them forget about their past. They also use drugs to forget their fucked up relationships since they are devoid of real commitments and relationships.
Don’t develop hatred
This was meant to show that humans should show some mercy and learn to forgive others. They should have care for humanity and for themselves, as opposed to the pop musicians who will always look for ways to kill the others because of jealousy or hatred. They have a lot of jealousy for normal decent men like you and me.
Don’t be famous for nothing
It’s better not to be a celebrity than to die with a soul full of regrets and pain. Try to have that special thing that every single famous and non-famous womanizer will envy. Be full of love, beautiful in love, smart and faithful to a woman and your life will be full of flowers. You should love to have one woman and a family till the day you die. That woman will always wake up every morning and praise God for that. Don’t dare let the world teach you how to be a man and follow your senses in any action you take in life.
Men are loyal and honest. They respect and honor women. He goes out and finds one woman and he vows in church to protect and love her for the rest of his life. A man should never betray that vow. Even the weakest and most cowardly man; if he is a man at all; would die for the woman he loves. A man might not be a hero but he can always die for the woman he loves.You don’t have to be a strong and a big man to become a real man. You don’t have to do that special job or drive that expensive car to become a man but all what you have to do is to love one woman in a special way and the other things will come automatically. Men are defined by how they treat women, how they honor their promise and how they protect and serve the ones they love and care about. This is all what makes a real man.
Descent and real man respects women. He gives them what they deserve and never treats them like garbage. Women are capable of loving one and only one man if he really treats them right. Never hit your woman or ask her to dress in provocative clothes.Women do what they are asked by their men to do. If you happen to mislead them, you would mislead your life and the family.These are the love words from an old man to a son. It simply says that it’s no good following the masses but let our actions be led by instincts, reasons and facts.