Have you ever heard of the hall pass? Not such a hit movie, it really struck a nerve with many men who are feeling the way that Owen Wilson did on screen. Many men think that there is something better out there for them. Coming home to the same woman day after day begins to lose its luster after years. If you want to find the way how to make husband fall in love again, it may be to let him make his own choices. Women are so used to make choices for everyone in their lives we do it for our men. This may be one time when you have to turn over control to him and allow him to make his own decision to choose you again.No one likes to feel controlled. Unfortunately, that is the way that most married men feel. When they are single, they get to leave their dishes in the sink. They are allowed to watch sports day in and out, but then they get married. Their disposable income goes to diapers and their televisions are taken for Dora the Explorer. They feel like nothing is theirs, or their choice. You become the enemy. You are taking their choices, their freedom and their fun. When they become resentful about all the fun they are missing out on, you are the likely target.
So how to make husband fall in love again
Instead of being the target of their unhappiness, allow them to see that without you they would be unhappy. It is a scary thing to turn over control, allow them not to choose you, but if yo u don’t give him the space he is likely to make the choice anyway. You can’t control your husband the way that you do your children, that is just the reality of the situation. So what do you have to do? You have to give him a hall pass.Men think that if you weren’t standing in the way, they would be sleeping with every hot chick in the room. They believe if you weren’t there to keep them from all the crazy fun, they would be out drinking and enjoying with their friends day in and out. The best way for them to see what they have is to not have it anymore. It is time for you to turn the tables and be the one thing that isn’t standing in his way, be the one thing that he wants that he can’t have. There is nothing more attractive to a man than the one thing he can’t have. Be that thing.
Make a plan how to make husband fall in love again
The most important thing is to not make the plan in the heat of a fight. You need to stop now, sit him down quietly and calmly, and tell him that you have come to the conclusion that he is not happy. Tell him that you want for him to take some time off of your relationship to find out what he really wants. Give him all the reasons why he should go out and find another woman. Tell him that there is no guilt, that you really just want him to find his smile again whatever that takes.He is most likely going to fight with you about it. He is used to the woman who is controlling his actions. Afraid of the repercussions, he will probably tell you that it isn’t what he wants. You have to insist that he take the time to be with other women again to make sure you are what he wants. I know this is a scary thing. I know that you are probably worried that he is going to go out and find someone. The reality is that if things go on the way that they do, he is going to go find someone else with, or without, your approval. This is a way to control the situation. If he leaves with the intention of finding someone else specifically suggested by his loving wife, it is going to result in a much different outcome.
The minute that you leave him, he is going to have time to do all those things that he thinks you are keeping him from. He will have two days of hog wild drinking, sports and women. Yes, he is going to have the time of his life, for two to three days. On the fourth day he will wake up in an empty, quiet home, with no one to love him and come running back. You no longer will be the one who is stopping him from what he really wants, you will be the thing that he really wants. To gain control you have to lose control. Give him the noose and let him hang himself and as always you will be there to pick up the pieces.