Comparing yourself to other’s is never a good idea and that’s when we are talking about real people! Nothing you see or hear from your friends means that your relationship is bad and comparing your life to a movie is just silly. Obviously, a movie’s sex scenes have been planned out. Whilst it might seem very erotic and sensual in the film, in reality, they have probably filmed that bit 50 separate times.The real difference between your sex life and the movies is that your sex life is real. Duh. This is kind of obvious, but isn’t it nice to know the person you are having sex with is your partner and they will be there for you when you want them? I imagine many actors in both normal movies and pornographic ones are both quite lonely when they go back to their hotel rooms and any chemistry that you have seen in a movie is fake. Actors are paid to be actors, right?Your sex, whilst it might be less smooth, less erotic seeming and more or less interesting than the screen is real and feels much better than seeing two random people on a screen doing the dirty.
In a movie, you might notice that the camera angles change a lot. This is due to many things, but usually it is because the picture has been edited to show many different angles of the people having sex and that there are many different things that the director wants to get in the picture. The sex scene in your favorite movie might only be a minute long in the film, but it probably took hours of slight alterations to get it ‘perfect’, whatever that means. The beauty of sex is that it isn’t perfect, it is two people performing a great act of love together and you can be close and happy with your partner whilst it is happening. This is why your love life is much better than anything you’ll see in a film. Even if you are not in a relationship, your sex life is still more than likely to be better than a film. You can go and meet new people, relax and massage each other or do anything else you want with your body. If a movie director says that there needs to be a sex scene in the film, there is a sex scene in a film. That means paring two (or more) random actors up to see what happens and see if it gels with the context of the film. If we are talking about adult films, then that’s even worse. Imagine having to have sex for a few hours when you really don’t feel like it or want to. Whilst some adult actors/actresses might enjoy all types of sex with anyone, there must be many movies where the performers didn’t really feel up to it and had to rely on their ‘acting skills’ to pull them through the day. When sex is your job, you don’t really have a choice whether you want to have sex!
In addition to all of this, a lot of porn movies use sexual positions that don’t feel that great for the performers but give a good view to the audience. This means that when you and your partner are fooling around, unless you are trying to re-enact some type of porn fantasy, you are probably having better feeling, closer and more intimate sex than anything you see on the movies.Don’t compare your sex life to that of a porn movie at any cost. The whole point of porn is to be visually appealing and if it doesn’t do this, it just wont sell. This means the actors/actresses have to look flawless, unnatural and take all kinds of drugs to stay looking the way they do. Not only this, they have to maintain their physique throughout the year and pretty much cannot enjoy anything that might impact their bodies’ image on the camera. Whilst you might keep good care of yourself, you have the freedom to eat a slice of chocolate cake occasionally, right?If you are watching any movie and think that you are missing out on something, you really aren’t. These people have no connection to each other and probably have other partners that they want to be spending that time with, yet can’t because of work demands. When you have sex with your partner, you’ll get a much better experience and you’ll be allowed to do whatever you want in the bedroom for your partner. Not only that, but I bet that your film actors are not going to get a special breakfast made for them the morning after a great night in!