How to be better in bed? Have the best make up sex
It’s a fact of life that almost every couple is going to have a few rows over the course of their relationships. Just as every cloud has a silver lining, many arguments end up with some very sweaty, very sensual sex. Supercharged emotion and anger can lead to great primal sex and sometimes allows people to have a different style of love making than what they would usually have. The problem with make up sex of course, is that you can’t just fall out over nothing for no reason to get some of it. When there are real problems in a relationship or if you are faking it, that is a sign of a bad relationship.To have the best make up sex, you have to make sure that the argument or the disagreement is totally over before you actually start getting in to bed.
Naturally, you’ll want the argument to end as nobody enjoys being mad but having sex and forgetting all about the problem before it has actually been resolved is indeed a fools’ errand. You might enjoy yourself and so might your partner, but anything that isn’t resolved will just crop up time and time again. This isn’t good for your relationship and many people have broken up with their boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse over recurring arguments that don’t seem to actually have an end in site. You’ve been warned.I recommend that you finish talking the problem over with your partner before you go in to the bedroom because it is much better for your relationship and can help make your partnership stronger. Not only that, but you then don’t have to worry about it later when you are in the bedroom.If things keep recurring and you just make it in to more sex, you or your partner might get very annoyed or even angry at the fact that this point of contention hasn’t been resolved yet. Caveat Emptor!Actually having the ‘make up’ sex won’t solve the rift in the relationship. Don’t expect it to and realize that there is always work to do in a relationship and you’ll get a much more favorable result. Whilst getting in bed with your partner again might make it seem like everything has been fixed, it has really just been blown under the covers. Emotionally void, pretend sex like this will make you wish that you had took the time to fix things before you got in to bed and after you’ve finished, the stress and anger might start to well up again.
Make up sex can make you have sex in different places and this is usually a pretty good thing. Some people never venture outside of the bedroom and because of this they aren’t aware of how good sex can feel in other locations around the house. Whilst I don’t condone having sex outside or in public, sometimes make up sex will pounce whilst you are in the kitchen, which is always fun.
People often find that after make up sex, if the problem wasn’t sorted out, both partners are more likely to come to an agreement, at least temporary. If there is a real problem or a very serious problem, don’t jump in to bed. If it is less important, it might be in your interest to wait to sorting it out until later, even though you should probably still do it before. Some people find the aggression that comes alongside the emotions in an argument as attractive and this can make sex better for both partners, especially if it is obvious that the aggression is turning your partner on. Make sure that your partner is okay with this though, if you are the type of person who loses themselves to their emotions in the heat of the moment. Stop if there’s any upset from your partner and make sure that they are comfortable and okay.Whilst this seems like a lot of things to consider when most people don’t bother, having great make up sex and not making things worse in your life is paramount to a good relationship. Think about it this way, if you have a great time at the expense of your relationship now, will it still be worth it in a week, month or year?Your relationship is important and if you are not getting along too well, there are deeper issues that you must resolve before you can be truly intimate. Baring all of this in mind, when the opportunity for make up sex is there, take it and enjoy and cherish the moment. Hopefully, you shouldn’t have too many occasions for it and when it does appear, make sure that it was worth the argument. Hopefully this advice will help you make your make up sex life better.
