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How To Get Your Ex Lover Back



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Lovers are different than girlfriends so are the ways to get them back
There is a supreme difference between your girlfriend and your lover. If you are looking to get an ex lover back, it is a different situation than a girlfriend. In your research to find a way to regain her, you may be getting tripped up looking in the wrong places for advice. The internet is chalked full of advice on how to get an old girlfriend back. An ex lover is different. If you had someone in your life who was nothing more than a lover, you are going to have to do something different to get her back. A lover is conceptually different from an ex girlfriend and so are the ways to get her back.

What is an ex lover?

There are people in your life who you hook up with to meet your needs. Girls come into our lives in many different capacities. If you lost a lover, that is something that you want to fight to get back. Girlfriends are more complex, they demand more from you and want more of your time. A lover? They want nothing more than quick, uncomplicated sex. That is a rare find my friend, and whatever it was that you did to screw it up, you better fix it quick. The reasons that it ended are going to determine the choices that you are going to have to make.

If your lover wanted to be something more than…

One reason that your lover may have ended things is because she wanted to be more than just your lover. Girls are usually okay just being your hook up as long as they feel no connection to you emotionally. If the time came when you made an emotional tie, everything changed. Somewhere along the relationship line, she stopped feeling like she could just be your lover. If you want know how to get your ex lover back in this type of situation, the answer is “no can do my friend”. You won’t ever be able to get your lover back. You will be able to get a girlfriend back, but never the emotionless convenience of a lover. Once you have gone from lover to emotional, there is no turning back. So, if you want her back, you have to tell her that you are ready to move from the lover stage to the girlfriend stage. The only thing that is going to bring her back is you making a commitment. So, hold on, it is going to be a bumpy ride.

If you wanted to be more than just a lover

There is occasion where the guy has decided he wants to be more than just a lover. Yes, it really does happen. There are times when a guy goes from commitment afraid to wanting to be in a committed relationship and she doesn’t. If you have decided that she is the one for you and want more than just sex, you are going to have to convince her she wants the same. That is not going to be easy. If she was alright with just having sex it is going to take some persuading on your part to get her into a different mode. Perhaps you saw her with another guy and realized that you didn’t want her having sex with someone else. Be careful. Jealousy can make you do things that you aren’t necessarily ready for. If you told her you wanted to be more than lovers and she said adios, you have to decide if you can still have sex with her knowing that she is free to have sex with anyone else she wants. If the answer is no, then you have to move along.

So, how to get your ex lover back?

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Sometimes you have to make the commitment or move along
So the answer to your question “how to get your ex lover back”depends on you. If you can’t live without her you have to accommodate her and be okay with what she wants. If she wants a commitment, you have to be willing to do that for her or it is over. If she doesn’t want a commitment, you have to be alright with her being with other dudes. I know it is a complicated thing. If you want to be honest with yourself, you knew that this was all too good to be true. You knew uncomplicated sex with a hot girl, wasn’t going to last very long. It has just come to the end of the road. It doesn’t have to though if you are willing to pursue another avenue. Just decide what you really want, and then do what she really wants. A lover is great, a commitment can be great, watching the woman you love have sex with someone else? Not so great.

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Posted on 14 April 2015 by The Psy. This entry was posted in Blog and tagged get ex lover back, getting back together advice, ways to get your ex back. Bookmark the permalink.
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