Do you have an ex? You are probably reading this in case you do. So, at some point, you must have been wondering if it was over. I know what it feels like to be left alone. But I also know that being severely depressed after a relationship has ended never helped me accomplish anything significant. The way these things work is very simple. If it was meant to be, then it lasts. No matter how badly it ended, it can always be restored if you have enough faith! If you can do anything once you start believing into yourself, then, without any doubts, you can get your ex back! This part is tricky sometimes, because you never know how they will react, what they will say and how they will feel.Man sitting alone in a bench No one can ever get over the strange feeling that we experience every time we speak to an ex after some time. It is simply because we got used to being so close and intimate with them, and all of a sudden we are returning to the “stranger” level. That is a big change that cannot be accepted right away, or even after some time. Instead of insisting and acting irrationally, you should know that there are, in fact, things that you can do which will help you get your ex back. The key is in knowing what to do and how to do it at the right time. I know it is hard to wrap your head around this mindset right now, I assume that most likely you feel like you do not care about anything. That nothing matters and everything is lost. I have been there, this is how I know. As soon as you start thinking rationally, you will be able to turn things around without a single problem. Nothing is ever lost unless you really want it to be. If you are confident that your love still has a chance, keep reading, and find out what to say to get your ex back!
Here is what to say to get your ex back!
Now, a lot of us, regardless of our gender, make a classic mistake after breaking up. We let our emotions take over, they do so in a large hurricane, they completely take control of us and we start doing things that we would never even think of doing under less tense circumstances. You feel anger, confusion, frustration, despair, and these emotions are mixed up into a shocking cocktail which makes you unsure of how you feel at any given moment. But you want to avoid this pattern, because not only will it spark up aggression between yourself and your ex, it will also drain you and leave you with a never ending feeling of exhaustion. You don’t know what to say to get your ex back? You are torn between wanting them back and being angry because of the pain they caused you? While violent acts, impulsive thoughts and rushed decisions might seem like a reasonable solution at that time, keep in mind that you are just going through a turbulent emotional flight and stay buckled up.
What should I do?
Couple sitting in a bench at the park You need to give yourself some time to clear your thoughts. Some alone time, dedicate it to whatever you normally enjoy doing. Be it writing, singing, hiking or drawing, make sure you always make some time for these activities during the day. With time, you will notice that doing these things brings you joy and a feeling of serenity. This is a good sign, it means that you are healing and you will soon be ready to move on to the next step. At this point, you will be able to speak to your ex casually, without feeling like you are falling apart with every word you say. In most cases, couples which parted ways chose to stay in a friendly relationship, mostly out of respect towards the precious times they shared. Even if things went terribly wrong and a huge fight happened before it all ended, after an appropriate amount of time, your ex will still be happy to see you. And this is a perfect opportunity to get them back. It is hard to speak to them in a restricted, almost formal manner, and this is mostly what makes everyone confused. It is like you are simply unable to think of what to say to get your ex back. If you look at it from a distance, it is incredibly easy. If you were the one who made the fatal mistake, do not try to deny it. Point out that you were wrong and that you fully understand why it made your ex feel hurt. The most important thing is to stay honest and show that you are willing to work on the relationship. This approach will most certainly bring the two of you closer together, and in no time, you will forget that the ‘break – up’ ever happened!
