The Best Sex You Have Ever Had!!!
What better sex can you have than great make-up sex? Your emotions are at an all-time high. Right, this second you see yourself as completely pissed off and there seems to be no reprieve in sight. Even when you are the one that is in the wrong, you still do not want to be the one that admits that they are in the wrong you just want to pretend that it has to be the other persons fault and stay mad. In all reality, though you may be upset this is probably the perfect moment to take advantage of. This can be especially true if the incident got hot and heated enough for you to be apart from each other, even if for a short time. To let go of all inhibitions and have hot, rough, nasty, reckless, passionate sex. It can be argued that this is an unhealthy method of keeping a relationship together, but come on, if it works it works. Sex is an excellent way to keep things together, it is the human way to outwardly show how you feel about another. Just because it can seem barbaric at times when done as the result of a heated argument it may be the ground floor of how we really interact. For a time the relationship seems to be perfect because you come back to that feeling of ecstasy each time you see your sex partner, at least until the next argument anyways.
5 ways to work on having better make up sex:
#1 Find the Perfect Moment
The perfect moment and timing is everything. Anger and sexual arousal or sexual excitement are on the same line of emotion. There is a very thin line between the two. What is the different between complete sexual frustrations and built up anger that begins to bubble over and cause a lashing out of events. This is usually a male initiated event because women tend to hold on to the anger longer than their male counterparts. Even though she is mad and you might get abused a little for doing it, touch her and let her know you care. It will pay off shortly, just be patient and let her know exactly what you want to do to her. If you start using your bedroom talk and coasting her into that magical place, she will forget how angry she is with you and commence to jumping your bones. Right after the argument you can either get an immediate sexual response or you may get smacked, but if you are willing to take the gamble it might all be worth it. So brace yourself and get ready for the beast that may come out of her when she turns that anger in to hot passionate unforgettable sex.
#2 Take Control
She wants you to take control, so give her exactly what she wants. Tell her what you are going to do, and do it. If you say you are going to screw her like she has never been screwed before, make sure you can follow through. If you say you are going to caress her body and take care of her every need, then do it. She wants to see you succeed believe me, so talk to her, if she says anything, listen, and by all means give it to her. Don’t procrastinate unless you are doing foreplay, and if you are attempting good foreplay keep her involved and show her body the attention it needs. Women are emotional and they want to be stimulated mentally and physically. Talk to your woman, it doesn’t even matter what you say as long as you say it, you mean it, and you are confident in your words. She has already given herself to you, own it and take responsibility for making sure it is taken care of.
#3 Just Don’t Leave
If you are going to get the person to have sex in order to keep them from leaving, make sure you realize that it is not a guarantee that they will not leave after you are done with them. In order for them to stay after the mind blowing sex give them a reason to stay, a hook, an irresistible circumstance. You know what keeps them engaged, give them what they want. Guys if you completely screwed up and caught yourself cheating on a good thing, you have a lot of work ahead of you. In this situation you probably should not have rough, hot sticky, nasty sex, instead you should aim for caring controlled loving I am so sorry sex. There is a huge difference. With this version of make-up sex you are trying to prove to them that you care, you know you were wrong, and it will never happen again. This is a very hard circumstance to get over, because to a woman she feels like you gave away what was hers and you disrespected the agreement you have entered into with her. Trust will be a huge hurdle in order for you to keep her for an extended period of time.
#4 Desire is Key
When turning the woman on to having make-up sex desire is key. You want to make yourself irresistible and remind her of why she has committed herself to you. The desire to have whatever it is that you are after should be evident. That woman wants to know that you want her and you want her bad. She wants to know that you desire to acquire her because it makes her feel as if she is a value to you, like you are still attracted to her. Reassuring her that you want nothing more at that moment than to please her and take care of her like she needs to be taken care of will help in allowing her to let go of the anger and let the feelings of desire and passion flood in.
#5 If You Were Wrong, Admit You Were Wrong
If you were wrong let go of your pride and tell her you were wrong, it goes a long way in achieving the intended results of your end game. What is more important at the time, getting some, or staying in your corner arguing how right you are? Continuing to argue will not help you to achieve your intended outcome it might even hinder your intended outcome for an extended period of time if you take it too far. Getting ready for and enjoying sex is very emotional for the female in your life, if all she can think about is how mad she is at you then if you do by chance get an opportunity to have sex with her it will be mediocre at best because she is not willing to let go and free herself of the tension she still feels in relation to you.
Make-up sex should be freeing and extremely enjoyable. It should aid in the release of emotions that need to be expressed. Turn that anger into something productive and get the special lady in your life to help you out. Take control, tell her what you want to do to her, look for the right moment, sell her on the idea, and if you were wrong admit it.